Penis Stigma

01/18/2013

So, today I wanted to share my thoughts on penis size. We all know that penis' come in several different shapes, sizes and even colors. But, what most people don't know is what women actually think about different penis'. Penis size is extremely important to men because for them it's directly associated with manhood. There are several different aspects and ideas surrounding a penis. However, men tend to forget what their penis is for. So, let's get started.

Let's start with the significance of the shaft to men. Everyone has probably felt the uncomfortable stairs in the gym locker room. Whether you're a man or a women. Everyone is uncomfortable with their size. For women it could be weight, height, and of course breast size. For men, it is definitely their penis. While being heavier in the boys locker room could also make you feel more uncomfortable I have a bit of good news for you. Even skinny men dread taking a shower in front of other men.  The issue is that men can be as critical and nasty toward other men regarding their manly-hood. Most men would say that they would rather have a larger penis over a smaller one. Reason being; for some reason men are genetically wired to think that the size of their penis makes them a bigger man. I think that men are forgetting one thing, the women. I can only speak for myself and other conversations I have over heard. But, most women prefer a smaller to an average sized shaft. Let's face it. The vagina as an extremely sensitive area. In my experience smaller is better!

Sex is an intimate time for couples to share their love for one another. It's the act of love making that produces offspring. So, why are men scared to uncover themselves in a lighted room? My opinion is, if you have a huge penis I feel sorry for you. There are not a ton of women who can handle it. Making the intimate time less intimate and less fun. Wouldn't you rather be able to make love to the women you're willing the share the rest of your life with over what  other boys say about your penis? I think it's important for you to feel confident in your body. Because the sooner you get over your penis size, the sooner you regain your confidence. Women want nothing more than a man who has confidence and isn't afraid to share intimacies with her. So guys, stop pretending that your penis size is really that important. Isn't part of being a man after all being able to satisfy your lady? Yeah, good luck doing that with your over sized ego and ten foot member.

A real man to me is someone who can equal show masculinity and femininity, even if it's just between me and you. Men should be able to take care of their family and of course stand up for what they believe in. Notice how penis size wasn't anywhere in my description? Probably because I don't care.

We can mostly blame this stigma on pornography. Okay, let's be real. What man doesn't watch porn? If they say "no" they are LYING! Even if they don't currently see the need in indulging in video's full of fake orgasms  right now, they have in the past. In porn the men have these ridiculously sized "things". Yes I said things. And heads up, those moans and screams are fake!!! No woman can work with such a ridiculous size. But what do mean think when they see it? I HAVE TO BE JUST LIKE THAT OR NO WOMAN WILL WANT ME. Thus carrying on the penis stigma. The truth is, if you go on the internet and look for interviews of ex-porn stars and models, you will find their true feelings on porn. Not only does porn promote the degradation of women, but it also tells men that their penis has to be over a certain bracket to even qualify for sex. If you need the proof I am posting a link to one of my favorite motivational speeches I have come across at the bottom of the page. So, be yourself because all women want are things so unrelated to your penis size.

Here are a few links:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_bc-8lIBkaU